During 2023 I had more than one loss, but the recent loss of my dear friend Gina Moss hit me hard.
Gina and I met somewhere in the early 1980s, but we became close friends in 2005 shortly after my husband Dan was in a horrible accident. She took the time to reach out to me and what she did meant so much. Every email and every call from Gina made me so happy.
She really cared and took the time to share joy with me. She would talk to me about music, the photos she took of birds and the outdoors, about her children and husband Josh, and about lots of other topics. I looked forward to every communication from Gina.
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| Gina |
After Dan got better, we continued to send letters and emails to one another and talk on the phone.
Gina would tell me about her physical problems and I could tell they were very serious. She told me she was using an electric wheelchair and that the vehicle she drove had been adjusted for her disability.
She was genuinely interested in my family’s life and read all my letters and emails and updates with interest.
When my book MY SKATING LIFE came out, Gina was one of the first people to review it on Amazon.
And…When Gina’s book You're Never Too Old to Have a Happy Childhood was published, I was so excited and bought it right away, but it took some time for me to finish reading it.
Gina was one of those people that always had something wonderful to say and lit up a room. She had the most beautiful voice and was also fluent in sign language because her grandparents were deaf and her mother was a sign language interpreter.
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| Gina and Josh Moss - Newlyweds |
I remember when she and Josh Moss got engaged and the beautiful music they could make together. I remember when they bought their first VCR since I remember Josh talking to Gina on the phone about recording shows. I remember when their children were born. I remember when they moved to Ohio and then when they moved to North Carolina.
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| The Moss Family |
When my son Joel was touring with Disney On Ice and the tour went to Greensboro, North Carolina, Josh and Gina picked him up and took him out to dinner. I was so grateful for that.
I would call Gina from time to time and one time when I called, I learned they had moved to Irvine, California and that was near Anaheim where Joel was doing a Disney On Ice show, so Joel, my dad, and I visited Josh and Gina.
Shortly after that I made a commitment to visit Gina and Josh whenever I went to California.
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| Here’s a card I sent to Gina |
Covid took over and I couldn’t go to California or visit, but when it was safe, I saw Gina and Josh at least two to three more times. Then, my father died and I could no longer visit California, so I decided to write Gina letters and cards (not emails) since it seemed it became harder and harder for her to respond. I just wanted her to know that I cared even if I did not hear back from her.
Gina’s death on November 17, 2023 caught me off guard. I’d been thinking about her and was sad couldn’t go to California to see her. It always happens that way: I think of someone and then they are gone.
Thank you for being my friend Gina. I can still hear your voice and see your smile. Miss you.
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